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Ten Common Sense Ways to get on her Good-Side

1. Avoid any contact with your ex - How would you feel if you found out that your girlfriend still remain in contact with her ex? For most men, the thought alone is enough to suspect infidelity even without any physical evidence. So to avoid creating any problems between you, your ex and current — it is in your best interest to keep your ex girlfriend out of your life.

2. Remember Important Dates – Forgetting the first time you love birds uttered the words “I love You” wouldn’t result in a relationship death sentence. However, frequently not remembering birthdays, anniversaries and valentines day would give her the impression that you think little of the relationship. To avoid this, I would suggest that you make small notes of every important dates using a note book or set reminders using your phone. Read the rest of this entry »

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When did Single People Became Relationship Experts?

The “biggest mistake I made in life was to take relationship advice from a single friend, because in the end – I almost pushed him/her into the arms of another.” Those might not be your exact words, but I am sure most of you that are currently married or in a committed relationship have a friend that is always single. And half the time whenever you ask them for advice about minor issues within your relationship, they almost instantly suggest a “break up” or “time apart.” It could be something as simple as him not remembering to set your alarm clock or constantly leaving toilet seat up. That friend; the single and miserable one always suggest something that could potentially damage your relationship. But in your mind, breaking up is never an option when dealing with issues that could be solved with an apology from one or the other.

So my question to you is,When did Single People Became Relationship Experts?

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A Good Man is Hard to Find, But Easy To Keep

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Most single females wouldn’t hesitate to admit that they are searching for Mr. Right. In fact, at this very moment a few of them are trying to make subtle eye contact with a “handsome fellow” on the bus, train, or social event. But unfortunately, pride won’t allow them to make the first move because of the shared belief that “it is the guy‘s responsibility to approach a female.” Well, as cheesy as that might sound, that idea alone is enough to explain why a lot of females are living “man-less.”

Contrary to popular belief, all good guys are not locked up, gay, or married. In fact, majority of them are casually going about their day-to-day lives in search of a lady to love, cherish and grow old with. How do I know this? Well, take a look around you and I am sure you will see the faces of a few hopelessly romantic men attempting to make subtle eye contact.  But predictably, you wouldn’t know this on a normal day, because he doesn’t fit perfectly into the mold of what you and other single females would consider desirable. He dresses simple, takes public transportation to work every morning, reads the MeTRO news paper while commuting and isn’t surrounded by a sea of excitement. Read the rest of this entry »

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Screw me like Tiger, but pay me my 80 million dollars first!

Guest Writer: Sandy Daley – To say that Tiger Wood’s indiscretions and extramarital affairs have been the most talked about story this week would be an understatement, as everyday more breaking news have surfaced. Men, women and children have been glued to the media outlets, watching as this squeaky clean sport celebrity’s private life is intruded upon daily, in full public view. It seems like Tiger was a freak behind closed doors!

As we learn about his numerous alleged affairs, all supposedly over the last few years, everyone has an opinion about his character and what his wife’s reaction should be. Women are up in arms about his doggish ways and some men, not surprisingly, are coming to his defense. Statistics report that over 75 percent of married men cheat, and most of them go for an extra affair within the first three years of their marriage. Many married men, including some of my close friends, are asking, “So what is the big deal?” “Sandy, I could use a couple more pum pum’s right now miself. Read the rest of this entry »

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Unprofessional Nightclub Management and Their Staff

I was on the Brooklyn bound number 4 train a few days ago thinking about a topic to write about for my next Blog entry. As usual, a number of topics came to mind, but I could not narrow it down to just one. After a few minutes of debating on which topic to choose, my mind drifted to a few unpleasant experiences I had while attending dancehall events. Surprisingly, those experiences had nothing to do with over priced entrance fees or sound-men excessively using profanity. It had a lot to do with the unprofessional behavior of nightclub management and their staff when handling matters concerning promoters and party-goers. Read the rest of this entry »

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