Posts Tagged: Dating


12
Oct 09

Forum Topic: Why are the Jamaican men using us American Women like dogs?

tears_lead_wideweb__470x312,0I came across the following post on WeJamaicans.com’s discussion forum and thought that i should bring it to your attention.

user: I came and met a Jamaican man on a dating site, he is the 4th of such men, but this one I thought was different, because he used to live in america – but because he was a jailbird, he got deported. Well, me being the lonely loving heart, picked this IDIOT out of the bunch and decided to start chatting with him, chatting, let to emailing, emailing led to phone conversations, before I knew it – it was love, just based on the phone conversations. Next, I flew from the U.S. down to see him, liked what I saw, liked him, but to discover that he didn’t really have a job, since he had been out of jail for 1 year – well, me being sympathetic, thought it was okay, he claims he was trying to start up his business, which I fell for. Then, I flew down the next month, and the next month, after talking with him over and over again, we BOTH came to the decision to get married – we’re in our late 40’s! So, planned the wedding, did the wedding in Jamaica, and after all of his promises, I believed in him….

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10
Aug 09

Older Men Dating Barely-Legal Teenage Girls

trainloveI can’t seem to understand what on earth would possess a guy in his late twenties/early thirties to date a girl young enough to be his sister.
The other day I was on a Brooklyn bound number four train when a young lady in her late teens confidently came onboard hand-in-hand with a much older. Without much hesitation, they began to put on a small make-out session to either prove that they are deeply “in love” or gross the living daylight out of us. Looking at the facial expression of those who saw what was happening, it was clear that they felt disgusted by what was unfolding before their eyes. Continue reading →


29
Jul 09

Ladies: Are You His Side-Dish?

062706-p1I’m almost certain that most females who attend dancehall events on a regular basis would agree that they frequently get approached by guys who all seem to share one common goal: to smash. It is often easy for females to recognize the game when it is been played, but from time to time — when there is a slight malfunction / glitch – the player instantly uses it to his advantage in order to score a “touch-down.”

It is without question that a significant number of guys who attend dancehall events religiously are either secretly married, dating or is in a sexual relationship with one or more females. Continue reading →


15
Jul 09

Ex and Current meeting face-to-face

pickup-lines-slapA few days ago my empress took it upon herself to give me a warning about what I should never do if we ran into one of my ex girlfriends in public. According to her, I should avoid cheesy smiles, hugs, and long conversations. Well, being the good boyfriend that I am, showing the slightest affection towards my ex in front of my express is totally out of the question. Because like most men, the fear of having to endure many sleepless nights alone, on the living room couch is enough to make any guy go insane. Even more nerve racking, empress might “lock-up shop” for a few weeks and the mere thought of that alone is enough to send chills up our spines. Thankfully, I am yet to learn the hard way, and I don’t have any immediate plans to make such a dreadful mistake. But for the guys who never took time to read the memo, now is the time to absorb the following suggestions on what not to say or do when both your ex and empress finally meet.

Never, under any circumstances initiate a conversation with your ex

Avoid steering at your ex when your empress is beside you (trust me, she will notice.)

Don’t develop a bad attitude if your ex is talking or openly flirting with another guy (Might give the impression that you are still emotionally attached)

Never ask your empress for permission to “just say hi” to your EX Continue reading →