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I’m sure that most of you would agree that dancehall divas wouldn’t be caught alive in public wearing an outfit that is not related to current fashion trends. Guys who admire their strong sense of style easily fall deeply infatuated by their beauty and ability to look flawless in everything that they wear. But to the average Mr. Joe, the question of “will I be able to finance her seemingly expensive taste?” is always lingering in the back of his head. The fact that she looks nice, smells good, dresses well and drives nice car shatters all hopes of getting her with his current paycheck. Because in his eyes she would be too expensive to maintain and is therefore left as just a figment of his infatuation. Sounds familiar?

Most guys could recall a few instances during their young adults years when they suppressed all desire to approach a female because their finances were not up to par. She looked nice and seem to have all the qualities that they are looking for in a female at that point in time. But had to hold back from making the first move out of fear that she might openly reject their advances or say aloud “mi nuh want nuh bruck pocket man.” The fear of being rejected or even humiliated publicly is what keeps a lot of guys from approaching dancehall divas even though she might be single and ready to mingle. Continue reading →